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I completely understand that you must be going through one helluva bad time, considering your partner dumped you (2 yrs back !) and you are still nursing your wound, but your expectation of my shoulder being available 24/7 so you can lean on it and shed countless tears is similar to expecting your pizza delivery boy to be late so you can rejoice the '30 mins or free' offer !
Well the truth is, She left you, you weren't good enough for Her, She was much more ambitious about her life and had set goals. The problem with you is you invested all the eggs into an omelet which was just plain and average. Also, you are a man, you should be more tougher than what you put on display.
You going yadda yadda yadda about how she left you, how you had fights, how you followed her like a hurt puppy and how you begged her to take you back is all acceptable, unless you choose your life to be centered only around these details. Move On, there's a reason Fasttrack adds were made, it was to reinforce thought of Letting Go for people like you.
What's even more sad is that you have had a bunch of rebounds after that incident, and still talk about it ! I do not know if it's your bruised ego, but I have done so, and I have seen the greener side of the pasture. I have always considered women to be more emotionally weak than men. When I could do it, why cant you?
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